ANGER
MANAGEMENT AND COPING SKILLS
Anger can affect any person,
at any time, and there is a growing need for members in our communities to
learn some basic techniques on how to help individuals who have experienced anger
problem.
World Theological University
has put together a training on anger management and coping skills
This course is ideal for
Pastors, Police officers. first responders, HR Managers, Lay Counsellors,
Volunteers, Educators and any member of the community who would like to acquire
the skills needed to care for other people in emotional need.
This a training program will
give the attendees all the necessary theory and how to apply it practically
using step by step anger management and coping skills
How you behave when
you're angry depends on how well you're able to identify and cope with your
feelings, and how you've learned to express them (see our page on causes of
anger for more information).
Not everyone expresses
anger in the same way. For example, some unhelpful ways you may have learned to
express anger include:
•
Outward aggression and violence - such as
shouting, swearing, slamming doors, hitting or throwing things and being
physically violent or verbally abusive and threatening towards others.
•
Inward aggression - such as telling
yourself that you hate yourself, denying yourself your basic needs (like food,
or things that might make you happy), cutting yourself off from the world and
self-harming.
•
Non-violent or passive aggression - such
as ignoring people or refusing to speak to them, refusing to do tasks, or
deliberately doing things poorly, late or at the last possible minute, and
being sarcastic or sulky while not saying anything explicitly aggressive or
angry.
“My brain goes blank and
I absent-mindedly release my anger through physical violence towards myself or
objects around me. I don't realise how destructive I've been until immediately
afterwards.”
If you find you express
your anger through outward aggression and violence, this can be extremely
frightening and damaging for people around you - especially children. And it
can have serious
consequences: it could mean you lose your family, job and get into trouble with
the law. In this case it's very important to seek treatment and support.
But even if you're never
outwardly violent or aggressive towards others, and never even raise your
voice, you might still recognise some of these angry behaviours and feel that
they're a problem for you. For example, you turn your anger inwards and
self-harm or deny yourself food.
Included in the workshop is:
1. World Theological University Trauma Training Manual
2. Handouts on trauma symptoms and coping strategies
3. A workbook and stationary
4. Certificate of attendance and training
5. Refreshments and snacks